MCCASKILL FAMILY SERVICES
Relationship Violence Support
Are you experiencing Relationship Violence or Abuse?
At McCaskill Family Services, we understand that relationship violence and abuse, sometimes referred to as intimate partner violence (IPV) or domestic violence/abuse, is often accompanied by complex emotions, including fear, shame, and confusion. Our therapists are here to provide non-judgmental support and guidance as you navigate this challenging terrain.
We offer trauma recovery support, help manage anxiety, assist with emotional regulation, and address trauma symptoms as part of the support process. Our services also include crisis counseling, and our therapists have extensive training in trauma-informed care and crisis intervention.
As you navigate this challenging terrain, we focus on building healthy relationships and emphasize the importance of positive relationships in recovery. We are committed to helping you reclaim and rebuild your lives after abuse. Our therapists approach each case with a trauma-informed lens, recognizing the foundational role of the therapeutic relationship in healing.
Sometimes it can be hard to know if what you are experiencing in your relationship is “normal conflict” or if it’s crossed over into something more harmful, like relationship abuse.
Relationship violence can include a wide range of behaviors and isn’t always easy to detect. Abusive behavior is any action used to exert control and maintain power over another person in a relationship, and it can take many forms beyond physical violence. Abusers use abusive behavior to control and maintain power within relationships.
Contrary to common misconceptions, relationship abuse does not discriminate based on gender, age, race, or socioeconomic status. The person who commits abuse can be anyone—an intimate partner, family member, or someone else the victim knows.
It can affect anyone, regardless of background or circumstance, and processing the past is an important part of recovery. Women are often impacted by domestic violence and may require tailored support. It can also be common to both experience abuse by a partner and sometimes engage in abusive behaviors yourself; having a plan for safety and recovery is crucial.
Recognizing Relationship Abuse
Recognizing the most common forms of relationship abuse can be the first step towards seeking help and healing. Some common indicators may include:
Controlling behaviors such as monitoring your phone calls, isolating you from your friends and family, or controlling your finances.
Physical violence such as hitting, slapping, pushing, throwing objects, or threats with a weapon—abused individuals may experience a range of harm, from visible injuries to long-term health consequences.
Emotional/Psychological abuse, including manipulation, humiliation, threats/intimidation, or verbal attacks.
Sexual coercion, harassment, or assault, including any unwanted sexual contact—sexual assault is a serious form of abuse that can have lasting trauma symptoms.
Take the First Step
If you or someone you know is experiencing relationship violence or abuse, please know that you are not alone and help is available. Taking the first step towards healing can be daunting, but it is also a courageous act of self-love and empowerment.
Contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation with one of our experienced therapists. Together, we can embark on a journey towards healing, growth, and reclaiming the love and respect you deserve in your relationship. You are worthy of a life free from violence and abuse, and we are here to support you every step of the way.